Clarification

My posting below titled "No Hard Feelings" garnered quite a response. I am fine and doing well. For some background Judy is very upset with me. She started to shut me out a while ago because I am harmful to her emotionally. I am not really clear on it all myself but I can respect that I am not every one's cup of tea. I tried in a rational way to get clarification but am still not clear. I am surprised in that I have known her a very long time as well as a lot of other people but this is the first time I have been labelled self absorbed. It makes me wonder if I am duplicitous too if I have hoodwinked so many others since they have not told me I am self absorbed. Judy's response was to block me from her blog. I have one more post that I will put up on the topic and then I will let it go. Thank you for the out pouring of concern.